Over 60% of kids aged 7 to 12 have been exposed to explicit content online, according to Parents Together. Exposure can come from friends sharing links and videos, salacious ads and recommendations popping up on their social feeds, and, of course, curious kids who are Google adult material. If you’re a parent wondering how to block porn on iPhone, Apple offers free tools to help reduce these risks. Here’s how to set them up effectively, plus extra tips to keep your child safe online.
Do you know about Apple Screen Time? This free feature lets parents set up content and privacy restrictions to block explicit content and manage app usage (among other features). To set it up, you’ll need to enable Family Sharing and create a profile for your child.
There are a few different ways to use Apple Screen Time to block porn on iPhone:
Use this setting if you only want to allow your child to access a limited number of apps and features. For example, you might restrict all web browsers, the iTunes Store, and any downloaded social media apps to limit exposure to explicit content.
You can block explicit music, movies, and apps with adult content and ratings. Popular music platforms like Spotify and YouTube music can easily expose your child to pornographic content, ranging from explicit images and audio content to podcasts. Here’s how to prevent it:
You can also filter website content to limit explicit material in Safari and block specific websites. Here’s how to block porn sites on iPhone:
We recommend blocking pornography websites like Pornhub, adult chat sites, and forums with no age limits.
Apple’s Communication Safety feature helps protect kids from viewing or sending photos containing nudity. Here’s how to set it up:
When nudity is detected in messages or shared content, the image is blurred, and your child is warned about the risks. They also have the option to message an adult they trust about the photo or video.
Even with these built-in tools, some explicit content may still slip through. This is why it’s crucial to maintain open communication with your child. Remind them that it’s okay to talk to you or another trusted adult about anything that makes them feel uncomfortable online.
For additional peace of mind, tools like BrightCanary help you stay informed about what your child encounters online, including explicit content, so you’ll know if they run into something they can’t handle on their own. Unlike Apple’s built-in tools, BrightCanary offers:
You might not always know how to talk to your child about problematic content, but BrightCanary’s features help get the dialogue started — without constantly checking your child’s phone.
There are ways to block porn on iPhone, but nothing replaces the importance of having regular check-ins with your child. Staying informed with a monitoring tool like BrightCanary is the best way to make sure your child isn’t consuming anything they can’t handle on their own. Are you worried about your child’s porn viewing habits? Find out what to do if your child was caught looking at porn, and save these signs of porn addiction in teens.
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🚫 TikTok banned from operating in Canada, may remain in US: The controversial social media app was politely yet firmly asked to shutter its offices in Canada, although Canadians can still use and access TikTok at their own risk. CBC reports that the decision to shutter TikTok’s Canadian offices was based on national security concerns and the advice of Canada’s security and intelligence community — pretty similar to the reasons TikTok was heading toward getting banned in the US. President-elect Trump has signaled that he will try to halt the ban, which would likely face formidable political challenges and legal hurdles. Either way, odds are high that your child will still be able to record TikToks for the foreseeable future. Stay informed with our guide to TikTok parental controls.
👤 NYT profile uncovers the dark side of minors on social media: The New York Times recently profiled Jacky Dejo, a child influencer turned social media entrepreneur who grew up in the creator economy — and in close proximity to men who are sexually interested in minors. Jacky’s parents started social media accounts for her when she was 6, intending to chronicle her snowboarding prowess. But as Jacky grew older, she captured the attention of adult fans, ultimately leaning in to their interest and charging for exclusive access to salacious posts and images. The profile is as enlightening as it is disturbing, but one of its more harrowing illustrations is the way that social media algorithms play a distinct role in surfacing children’s images to men who have a sexual interest in them — and failing to remove underage content that violates terms of service. Parents, talk to your kids about the risks of online predators, grooming, and why they should keep their social profiles private.
🔐How schools implement “away for the day” phone policies: More schools across the country are asking students to put away their phones, but are these policies really helping kids? A recent feature in the Seattle Times says yes. Robert Eagle Staff Middle School is one of 4,000 schools worldwide that use Yondr pouches, neoprene bags that lock away the child’s phone for the day. Staff at these schools say that students are more focused during class, spend less time dealing with conflicts from group chats or social media, and even have fewer disciplinary incidents (like vaping and alcohol use) because kids can’t use their phones to coordinate meetup locations. “The last two years, 70% of my job has been dealing with cellphones. It felt like whack-a-mole,” Principal Zachary Stowell said. “And now that’s removed. Now I’m talking to teachers about their teaching, which is cool.” Does your child’s school have a phone-free policy?
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Is social media influencing your child’s eating habits and relationship to food? We spoke with Maiken Wiese, RD, about eating disorder warning signs. Here are some important conversation-starters based on her insights.
Is your child consuming an endless loop of bad news? This habit can expose your child to an endless stream of negative content and fuel their anxiety. Find out what to do about it.
Text message monitoring is a great way to keep your child safe. But if your child is deleting texts, your alarm bells might be going off. Is it harmless, or are they hiding something?
🤬 What’s the best way to stay cool, calm, and collected with your children? Check out these tips to improve self-regulation — your ability to keep your emotions in check — via Parenting Translator.
📵 Australia has proposed a ban on social media for kids under age 16, but it isn’t clear how the ban would be implemented. If the legislation becomes law, the platforms would have a year to figure out the details.
🧩 Looking for some screen-free activities you can do with your children this winter? Save this list from Techno Sapiens.
🎧 We were featured on the Calm Parenting Podcast in an episode about practical strategies for screen time and parental controls — give it a listen!
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❗New iMessage feature prompts children to report explicit images: Apple is rolling out a new feature that allows children to report nude images and videos directly to Apple, which can then be escalated to law enforcement. The feature is being piloted in Australia with plans for a global release, The Guardian reports. It builds on existing communication safety measures for users under 13: currently, Apple identifies and flags nudity in messages, AirDrop, and Photos, but the new update will allow users to report the content to Apple. Apple hasn’t stated when the feature will debut to users outside of Australia. In the meantime, talk to your child about how to respond to explicit content. Here’s our guide.
🙈 Google introduces Sensitive Content Warning on Android: In related news, Google recently announced new protections for Google Messages on Android, including an optional Sensitive Content Warning that blurs images containing nudity. When enabled, this feature automatically blurs potentially explicit images and prompts users with a screen that lists resources and options, including the choice to view the content. If a user attempts to send or forward a nude image, the feature provides a reminder about the risks of sharing sensitive imagery to help prevent accidental shares. This feature will be enabled by default for users under 18 once it rolls out.
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Is your child wrapped up in a toxic friendship? We spoke with Anna Marcolin, LCSW, about what to do if unhealthy relationships are bringing your child down. Save these conversation-starters and read the full list of tips at our blog.
This messaging app is popular among teens and tweens. But between location sharing and stranger danger, it can also be cause for concern. Here’s what parents should know.
Social media can negatively impact your child’s mental health. But how does social media influence eating disorders? We spoke with Maiken Wiese, RD, about red flags to watch for.
📵 Why are churches encouraging their congregations to take a month-long digital detox?
💬 Norway plans to increase the minimum age for social media use from 13 to 15 and older.
⭐ How exactly should you praise your child? Research suggests that there are better ways to say “I’m so proud of you.”
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📵 Predators are using TikTok to exploit minors. Minors are using TikTok’s live feature to perform sexually suggestive acts on camera in exchange for money and gifts, according to a report by Forbes and documentation from TikTok’s own internal investigation. NPR and Kentucky Public Radio also found that TikTok tweaked its algorithm to more prominently show attractive people, and the platform quantified how much time it takes for viewers to become addicted to the platform: 260 videos, or under 35 minutes. Even though minors aren’t allowed to livestream or receive gifts, it’s relatively easy for children to fib about their age when they sign up. Performing suggestive acts on camera in exchange for gifts is just one way predators can groom targets for sexual abuse and sextortion. TikTok says it has a zero tolerance policy for child sexual abuse material, and the platform does have parental controls — but they only work if your child sets their correct birthdate.
🤖 Social media companies aren’t doing enough to stop AI bots. That’s according to new research from the University of Notre Dame, which analyzed the AI bot policies and mechanisms of eight social media platforms, including Reddit, TikTok, X, and Instagram. Harmful artificial intelligence bots can be used to spread misinformation, hate speech, and enact fraud or scams. Although the platforms say they have policy enforcement mechanisms in place to limit the prevalence of bots, the researchers were able to get bots up and working on all the platforms studied. If you haven’t talked to your child about the risks of bots, misinformation, and online scams, now’s the time — if your child has used any social platform, odds are high that they’ve encountered a bot already.
😩 Teens are stressed about their future, appearance, and relationships. A team of researchers surveyed US teens about what stressors today’s teens are feeling. A majority (56%) of teens are stressed about the pressure to have their future figured out, 51% felt pressure to look a certain way, and 44% felt like they needed to have an active social life. While adults drove teen’s pressures to have their futures planned out and achieve the most, the pressure to have an active social life and keep up with appearances were driven by social media, the teens themselves, and peers. Teens are struggling to reduce those stressors, too — time constraints, difficulty putting tech away, and feeling like rest isn’t “productive” enough were all blockages to practicing more self-care. Techno Sapiens breaks down things parents can do to help their stressed-out teen.
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Helping your teen manage stress starts with open and honest conversations. Here are five conversation-starters designed to prompt meaningful chats about self-care, stress management, and healthy ways to navigate the pressures they face:
It’s spooky season! A Good Girl’s Guide to Murder is a popular young adult mystery thriller (and Netflix series) — but is it safe for kids? If your child is interested in this series, read this guide first.
Are your child’s group chats causing major drama in their friend group? Here’s what parents need to watch for when their child starts texting independently — and how to help your child handle it.
🤳 Instagram remains the most used social app among teens, followed by TikTok, according to a new report by Piper Sandler.
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Did you know that Snapchat has free parental control features within the app? If you didn’t know, you’re not alone. Although 20 million teenagers use Snapchat in the United States, only around 200,000 parents use Snapchat Family Center to supervise their accounts. If you’re wondering how to use Snapchat Family Center, this guide explains what parental controls Snapchat offers, how to set it up, and how to use it effectively to keep your teen safe.
Snapchat Family Center helps parents keep tabs on their child’s contacts and conversations. Parents can see who their child is communicating with and how frequently, but it doesn’t reveal the content of their messages.
Family Center also allows parents to restrict sensitive content in Snapchat’s Stories and Spotlight sections, which can potentially expose kids to inappropriate material because they’re posted by other users and publishers.
This suite of Snapchat parental controls also makes it easy to report suspicious accounts or concerning behaviors directly through the app. If your child connects with someone unfamiliar or if any interactions raise red flags, you can immediately take action.
In the Family Center, parents can see:
It’s important to note that Family Center doesn’t provide access to your child’s Snaps. The tool is more about awareness, rather than monitoring the content of their messages for topics like explicit content or drug references.
It’s free and simple to set up Snapchat Family Center. First, you’ll need a Snapchat account. Then, follow these steps:
That’s it! Once your teen accepts the invitation, you’ll be able to see their most recent interactions and set content limits.
Snapchat Family Center doesn’t allow parents to see the content of their child’s messages. Parents who want more visibility can use child safety apps. The benefit of these third-party apps is that they allow parents to monitor messages for red flags, such as conversations about self-harm or drug use. The downside is that most of these apps don’t work with Snapchat on Apple devices — with the exception of BrightCanary.
BrightCanary is the only child safety app that monitors Snapchat on iOS. (This feature is currently in beta mode and rolling out to our subscribers in the coming weeks!) While Snapchat limits what third-party apps can access, BrightCanary allows parents to supervise texts and most images your child sends on Snapchat. If your child receives anything concerning, the app will flag it for you to review, so you don’t have to manually review every message.
Even the best parental control features don’t work if your child doesn’t agree to them. If your child pushes back on using Snapchat Family Center, start by having an open and honest conversation about your concerns.
Start by explaining that you’re not trying to spy on them. Instead, you’re trying to ensure they’re interacting safely and responsibly online. Talk about some of the risks associated with Snapchat, like getting added to group chats with strangers, seeing inappropriate content on their Spotlight feed, or even the risk of getting approached by drug dealers, who regularly use Snapchat and other social media platforms to sell illicit substances to minors.
You can also approach this conversation as a team effort. Ask your child why they feel uncomfortable using parental controls, and try to understand their perspective. Acknowledge their need for independence, and then set some ground rules together.
For instance, you might position Family Center as a requirement for device use; if they want their own phone and Snapchat account, they need to agree to parental supervision. Maybe you all agree to use Family Center for a trial period, then revisit the conversation in a few months.
Snapchat’s Family Center is a step in the right direction for promoting safe digital habits for teens. While it doesn’t offer access to message content, it provides valuable insights into who your child is messaging. To get the most out of Family Center, use it alongside other child safety apps like BrightCanary, and, most importantly, maintain open communication with your child about safe social media use.
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🚫 More kids are contending with AI-generated explicit photos: The Center for Democracy and Technology (CDT), a nonprofit focused on digital rights and privacy, recently reported a concerning rise in intimate images being shared without consent in American schools. During the past school year, 15% of high school students heard about a sexually explicit deepfake (an AI-generated image) of someone associated with their school, and 11% of kids ages 9–17 knew a peer who used AI to generate nude images of others.
This alarming trend can ruin a child’s self esteem, social life, and well-being. It’s fueled by the widespread availability of generative AI apps, which some students may use without fully understanding the risks and consequences. According to CDT’s survey, less than 20% of high school students said their school had explained what a deepfake nude is, and a majority of parents reported that their child’s school provided no guidance about authentic or AI-generated NCII. For more information and tips on how parents can reduce the risk for their kids, check out our blog.
👀 California Governor Gavin Newsom signed SB 976, also known as the Protecting Our Kids from Social Media Addiction Act. The bill prohibits online platforms from knowingly providing an “addictive feed” to a minor without parental consent. The bill also prohibits social media platforms from sending minors notifications during school hours and late night hours. The regulations won’t go into effect until January 1, 2027, to make time for the very likely court challenges from opposition groups, such as tech lobbyists and the Meta legal team.
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There’s an alarming trend on the rise: AI-generated explicit images circulated among high schoolers. What are deepfake nudes, and how can parents prevent it?
Looking for a new read to help you navigate parenting in the age of social media and smartphones? We’ve got you covered with this list.
When was the last time you had a really meaningful conversation with your child? Maybe you tried, but they clammed up or just repeated a series of “I don’t know”s and noncommittal grunts. Here are some conversation-starters to have better chats with your child, based on advice from psychotherapist Anna Marcolin, LCSW. Remember, approach the conversation with curiosity — not judgment.
🦄 Fortnite now allows parents to set time limits for their kids. If you’re curious about other Fortnite parental controls, we’ve got you covered on the BrightCanary blog.
😮💨 Women tend to do more of the day-to-day online work for the family, such as ordering essentials online, managing digital communications with schools and doctors, and planning events with other parents — all of which contribute to digital overload and even burnout, BBC reports.
🫶 How do you raise a well-adjusted adult? That’s the million-dollar question. Dr. Cara Goodwin of Parenting Translator breaks down the factors supported by research: a warm and loving parent-child relationship, and encouraging kids to take control of their thoughts and feelings.
💁 Preventing online addiction in kids requires a multi-pronged approach: teach kids about digital literacy, set rules and limits on devices, promote offline activities, and use digital monitoring tools alongside regular communication. Read more tips over at Psychology Today.
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🛡️ Meta announces Teen Accounts: If your teen uses Instagram, their account will automatically convert to a Teen Account with added safety protections over the next few months. The update, which affects all new and existing accounts for teens ages 13–17, comes as social media companies face mounting pressure to do better for their youngest users. Many of the features have existed since 2021, but required users to opt in. Now, these protections will be automatically applied, along with improved age verification measures.
Some of the key features for teen accounts include:
Parents can also use updated supervision tools to see the topics their teen engages with and who they’re messaging, although you won’t be able to view the content of the messages. (To monitor those Instagram DMs, you’ll need BrightCanary.)
Our take: It’s about time. Instagram’s existing parental controls were confusing and difficult to find. This update applies common-sense safety measures to teen accounts, but parents still need to stay involved — and make sure their teen isn’t fibbing about their age online.
⚖️ KOSA and COPPA 2.0 advance in the House: Two major child online safety bills have moved out of the House Committee on Energy and Commerce: the Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) and the Children and Teens’ Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA 2.0). KOSA would hold social media accountable for harm caused to underage users, while COPPA 2.0 expands and updates the outdated 1998 COPPA law. KOSA had previously passed the Senate but faced some last-minute amendments in theHouse committee, including the removal of a provision that would have held platforms responsible for mitigating anxiety, depression, and eating disorders. While both bills are now set for a full vote in the House, it’s not clear whether they’ll gain enough support to pass.
😬 FTC finds that social media companies don’t adequately protect kids: A new FTC report found that large social media and video streaming companies surveilled their consumers in order to monetize their personal information, and they failed to protect young users online. The companies cited in the report include Amazon (which owns the gaming platform Twitch), Meta, Snap, Discord, and ByteDance, which owns TikTok. The companies’ data collection, minimization, and retention practices were designed as “woefully inadequate,” which is as harsh a burn from the FTC as you can get, and urged companies to provide greater safety measures for children. The FTC also urged Congress to pass stricter federal privacy legislation.
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If your child uses Snapchat, you’ve probably heard of the social clout Snapstreaks can have. But what is a Snap streak, how do they work, and should parents be worried?
Monitoring your child’s texts can reveal warning signs of risky behavior or distress, but what should parents look for? We spoke with psychoanalyst and life coach Anna Marcolin for tips.
From the moment your child gets home, they’re thinking about what’s happening on Instagram or what their friends are sharing on Snapchat. If your child is hyper-focused on social media and dealing with FOMO (fear of missing out), it’s time to help them refocus their energy on real-life hobbies, interests, and activities. Here’s how to start the conversation.
😤 What is the worst argument social media companies use to defend themselves? “Instead of acknowledging the damage their products have done to teens, tech giants insist that they are blameless and that their products are mostly harmless,” write Zach Rausch, Jon Haidt, and Lennon Torres for The Atlantic.
👎 Nearly half of Gen Zers wish social media was never invented, according to a new survey by The Harris Poll. Eight in 10 Gen Zers have taken steps to limit social media usage at some point, such as unfollowing or muting an account (42%) or deleting a social media app (40%).
📰 Around half of TikTok users (52%) now say they regularly get their news on the platform, up from 43% last year and just 22% in 2020.
📅 The Australian government is considering a minimum age limit for teens to use social media, citing mental health concerns.
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😩 Surgeon General says parental stress is a public health issue: In a new public health advisory, US Surgeon General Murthy called for policy changes that better support parents and caregivers. The advisory noted that 48% of parents report that their stress is completely overwhelming, compared to 26% of other adults. And even though the amount of time parents spend working has increased (+28% for moms, +4% for dads), the amount of time they spend engaged in primary child care has also increased (+40% among moms, +154% among dads). Murthy called for safe, affordable child safe programs, predictable workplaces and understanding workspace leadership, and community centers (such as playgrounds and libraries) that can give children space to play while fostering social connection among parents.
👎Snap and TikTok sued for failures with child safety: The attorney general of New Mexico filed a lawsuit against Snap, the parent company of Snapchat, alleging that the company’s design features (namely, disappearing messages and images) facilitates sexual abuse and fails to protect minors from predation. Additionally, a U.S. appeals court has ruled that TikTok must face a lawsuit over a 10-year-old girl’s death. The girl’s mother, Nylah Anderson, is pursuing claims that TikTok’s algorithm recommended a viral “blackout challenge” to her daughter.
📹YouTube introduces content rules and new supervisory tools for teens: YouTube is limiting content that could be problematic for teens if viewed repeatedly. This includes content that promotes weight loss, idealized physical appearance, and social aggression. The platform also introduced new parental controls for teen users, allowing parents to link their account to their teen’s in order to view their YouTube activity. Parents will be able to view their child’s uploads, subscriptions, and comments — but not their content. (For that, you’ll need a child safety app like BrightCanary.)
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Snapchat can be risky for kids because of how easily strangers can contact them and messages can disappear. Here’s what parents need to know about the platform.
Many apps promise to help you monitor your child’s texts, but finding one that actually works well is an uphill battle. We’ve done the research to find the best of the best.
Even when your child’s social media feed doesn’t explicitly promote eating disorders, content can still encourage unhealthy behaviors or unrealistic body standards in subtle ways. Here are some conversation-starters to help you talk to your kids about content that promotes disordered eating behaviors and body negativity.
📵 “Just like it is impossible to train your child to drive a car without supervising from the passenger seat, you cannot train your child to be smart online if you are not privy to what he is doing in that world,” writes Melanie Hemp of Be ScreenStrong. Read more about your teen “earning” smartphone privacy.
📱 If your kid keeps getting around Apple Screen Time limits, what are your options? On the BrightCanary blog, we explain common workarounds and how parents can prevent kids from sneaking past their screen time boundaries.
👻 We’re adding a new, much-requested platform to the BrightCanary app in the coming weeks — stay tuned!
Keeping your kids safe in the digital world means staying informed and involved. But when it comes to iPhones, privacy settings can make it challenging for parents to access what’s important — like text messages. Many apps promise to help you monitor your child’s texts, but finding one that actually works well on iOS is an uphill battle. We’ve done the research to find the best app for monitoring text messages on iPhone, highlighting their features, pros, and cons. Let’s dive in.
Texting is the new social media. Teens receive hundreds of notifications per day, and not all of those messages are positive. Group chats can spiral into harassment, scams and strangers can reach your child, and red flags for mental health concerns can happen in conversations between friends. That’s why parents need to stay informed when their kids begin texting independently, setting texting rules and using monitoring tools to identify any concerns.
However, it’s really difficult to monitor texts on Apple devices. That’s a problem because 87% of teens have iPhones. Apple’s free parental controls give parents a way to limit who can text their children, but they can’t easily review what their texts say.
Having regular conversations about online safety and device use is an important part of monitoring, but for parents who also want to check their child’s texts, they’re faced with a challenge: they can attempt to manually review hundreds of texts per day, or sit back and hope for the best. Yikes.
Some parental monitoring apps allow parents to comprehensively monitor texts on Android, but their features are severely limited on Apple devices. That’s where these apps for monitoring texts on iPhone come in — the following child safety tools help parents balance monitoring and supporting their kids’ growing sense of independence.
BrightCanary is the only child safety app that comprehensively monitors iPhone text messages, even when they’re out of the house. The app gives parents the ability to read full text threads, learn about their children’s emotional well-being, view AI summaries, and even get coaching prompts to have better parent-child conversations.
Pros:
Cons:
Final takeaway: Best for parents looking for comprehensive text message monitoring on iPhones with AI-powered support.
Bark is one of the most popular apps for monitoring online activity. However, Bark text monitoring is limited for iOS. Parents can either monitor text messages by installing an app on their desktop or a separate device called Bark Home. The app only scans the child’s text messages while they’re at home.
Pros:
Cons:
Final takeaway: Bark is best for parents who want to monitor texts on Android devices or want to monitor multiple platforms, such as X (Twitter) and Reddit.
A robust parental monitoring platform that runs into roadblocks on iOS. MMGuardian offers specific parental controls for iPhones, but like Bark, you’ll need to install a separate app and can only scan your child’s texts when they’re on the same WiFi. However, for parents who want more detailed insights, MMGuardian does show full text threads.
Pros:
Cons:
Final takeaway: Best for parents looking for text message monitoring on iOS, are okay with syncing devices at home, and aren’t interested in AI coaching features.
Okay, these aren’t apps, but text message monitoring apps for iPhone are generally pretty limited (with the exception of BrightCanary). Some companies have created their own phones that limit app usage, monitor messages, and have GPS tracking. These phones treat text messages differently: Gabb offers its own messaging app called Gabb Messenger, while Pinwheel and Troomi use an Android SMS app that parents can monitor. Bark doesn’t allow kids to delete texts without the parent’s permission, and the phone uses Bark’s software to identify inappropriate content.
Pros:
Cons:
Final takeaway: Best for parents of younger kids who need basic, controlled phone access, but less useful for older teens.
Apple makes it difficult for most third-party apps to monitor text messages. That’s why so many options out there are limited, or they have more features available for Android phones.
If you’re considering a child safety app for iPhone, double-check what they monitor and what the setup process is like. If you don’t want to install any extra software or rely on your desktop to check on your child’s messages, that narrows your options. For example, Bark and MMGuardian can only scan your child’s texts when they’re home. In comparison, BrightCanary can monitor your child’s texts even when they’re at school or with a friend.
Many child safety apps offer text monitoring alongside other parental controls, such as location tracking, social media monitoring, and the ability to restrict who can contact your child. If you want your text monitoring app to do more, that’s another thing to consider. (These features are also freely available with Apple Screen Time and Find My.)
Finally, pricing is another important factor. Most child safety apps operate on a subscription basis. Are you getting the most bang for your buck? If you run into an issue or have feedback, is there a US-based support team available?
In today’s digital landscape, it’s essential to stay involved with your child’s online life. The best apps for monitoring text messages on iPhone give you the insights you need, all in a way that fits into your daily routine. Staying informed doesn’t have to be a chore or feel overwhelming. It’s a key part of guiding, protecting, and supporting your child today.
Yes. Child safety apps like BrightCanary and MMGuardian allow you to monitor deleted text messages.
Maintain open communication with your child. Explain that you trust them, but texting can expose them to serious risks. Text monitoring can give your child more independence, with a safety net. Let your child know that your goal isn’t to spy on them. Many BrightCanary parents only choose to read text summaries, and they’ll only read full threads if something looks concerning.
It depends on the app. BrightCanary monitors group chats and even provides insights into the emotional content of those conversations.
BrightCanary stands out for its iPhone-specific capabilities, offering the most comprehensive text monitoring features, including deleted messages and AI insights without requiring the installation of extra software on your child’s device or your home computer.
BrightCanary costs $49.99 per year or $5.99 per month. See how BrightCanary’s pricing compares to other text monitoring apps.
Download BrightCanary on your device, then create an account for your child. Add their iCloud login information. BrightCanary will sync with their Apple account and begin monitoring their messages. Learn more about how to set up BrightCanary text message monitoring.
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As back-to-school season kicks off, the debate over cell phone bans in schools is heating up. From Los Angeles Unified to the entire state of Florida, more schools are telling kids to keep their devices locked up from bell to bell. So, why are schools banning phones — and should your local district ban them, too?
Why are schools banning phones? Cell phone restrictions are becoming more common as educators grapple with the impact of smartphones on learning. Over 70% of high school teachers say that student phone use is a major problem. According to the National Center for Education Statistics, 77% of U.S. public schools now prohibit non-academic use of cell phones during school hours.
The goal of these bans is to create an environment where students can focus on school, without the constant pull of devices. Some schools require students to put their phones in backpacks or special lockers that can only be opened at the end of the school day. Others force the teachers to fend for themselves, leading to an inconsistent mishmash of cell phone rules between classrooms.
Should schools ban phones? Cell phones are disruptive, especially for kids. Students can take up to 20 minutes to refocus on what they were learning after being distracted (which is literally what phones were designed to do). Studies show that removing phones from classrooms can lead to better academic performance, test scores, and self-regulation skills.
Not everyone is on board. One major source of pushback is parents who are used to being in constant contact with their children throughout the school day. Some parents rely on texting or calling their kids during school hours (often for non-emergencies), which can disrupt the learning environment. Others will even FaceTime their kids to talk about assignments or quiz grades … in the middle of class.
But as Mercer Island School District in Washington demonstrates, there are ways to navigate this challenge.
MISD recently introduced a comprehensive phone-free policy in partnership with Yondr, a company that provides lockable phone pouches for students. With few exceptions, all students must have their own Yondr pouch and place their devices in it at the beginning of the day, and they can unlock it at the end of the day.
For emergencies, parents can call the school to deliver a message, or kids can come to the front office to use a phone … just like the days before iMessage. On an impressively detailed page on MI’s website, the district is clear: some people are very used to communicating schedule changes and practice/game/event schedules via cell phones. Those people (students, parents, and staff) will have to adjust.
With the right communication and planning, a phone-free school environment is achievable.
Parents, encourage your child to use their phone responsibly, and set an example by giving them space during the school day. After all, the goal is to help them develop healthy habits that will serve them well beyond their school years.
If your child’s school is considering a phone ban, advocate for policies that are logistically possible and enforceable. Away for the Day maintains an impressive list of policy examples across the country.
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