
If it feels like the digital world your teen is navigating is changing faster than you can keep up, you’re not imagining it. While social media platforms may look largely the same on the surface, how teens are using them is shifting in important ways.
Pew Research Center recently surveyed U.S. teens about their use of social media and AI. Social media use has mostly plateaued, but attitudes toward these platforms have become more negative. At the same time, use of AI chatbots has exploded, with many teens turning to AI not just for homework help, but for companionship and emotional support.
That combination creates new risks for kids and challenges for parents. Here are the most important findings from Pew’s data, what’s changed, and what these trends mean for your child’s safety, mental health, and development.
Aside from unsurprising downward shifts in Facebook and X use, and a slight uptick in TikTok and WhatsApp, teen engagement with social media hasn’t changed much.
Social media OGs Facebook and X (formerly Twitter) continue to hemorrhage teen users.
X (formerly Twitter)
The two platforms that stand out for growth among teen users are WhatsApp and TikTok.
TikTok
A majority of U.S. teens still use YouTube, Instagram, and Snapchat.
How teens use social media hasn’t changed much lately, but research reveals that their attitudes about it are starting to shift.
For the first time, Pew included questions about AI chatbots and found that teens have taken to them like wildfire. This is alarming, considering that AI platforms frequently fail to deliver the safeguards they promise.
Even more worrisome is how often teens use AI for companionship. For this, we also looked to a recent assessment by Common Sense Media.
Social media and AI aren’t going anywhere (as much as some of us might wish). Both types of platforms are deeply intertwined with kids’ lives. It’s vital you’re proactive in helping your child maneuver these spaces. Here are my top four tips for keeping your teen safe on social media and AI:
Educate your child about the dangers of social media and AI. Teach them how to spot things like predators on social media, AI hallucinations, and signs of digital addiction. Your child is a partner on this journey, and the more they know, the more they can take an active role in their own health and safety.
Decide when and how your child is allowed to use social media and AI, as well as what’s not okay. Be clear about expectations and consider writing them into a digital contract.
Take advantage of the parental controls available on social media platforms, your child’s device, and AI chatbots. While these can be useful, know that they aren’t perfect and should not be your only safeguard.
Keep an eye on how your child uses social media and AI platforms by doing periodic spot checks of their device, combined with a monitoring tool like BrightCanary.
Social media use among teens remains mostly stagnant when compared to previous years, but use of AI chatbots is on the rise. This is troubling considering the risks kids face on AI platforms and the relative lack of safeguards. Teens also express increasing concerns about how social media impacts their mental health. It’s important to educate your child about how to stay safe on these platforms, set limits, use parental controls, and monitor their use.
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