What Is “Instagram Face,” and How Is It Hurting Girls?

By Andrea Nelson
October 29, 2026
Teen girl taking selfie with Instagram Face filter

From corsets to foot binding to arsenic complexion wafers, dramatic measures to fit conventional beauty standards aren’t new. But social media filters — and, more recently, AI — have supercharged the idea that beauty is a box that one can fit into, given the right tools. “Instagram Face” is the lastest iteration of online beauty trends. Let’s take a look at what it is, how it’s harming girls, and what parents can do about it. 

What is Instagram Face?

The term “Instagram Face,” coined by The New Yorker staff writer Jia Tolentino, refers to a kind of homogenized aesthetic that has taken over social media feeds. Tolentino calls it a “single, cyborgian face … a generic sameness.” 

Characteristics of Instagram Face include: 

  • Smooth, poreless skin 
  • High cheekbones 
  • Plump lips 
  • A small, neat nose
  • Feline eyes
  • Cartoonishly long lashes
  • Symmetrical features 

Methods used to create Instagram Face

Forget relying on makeup to achieve the perfect selfie. Girls who want to alter their appearance for public consumption now have an arsenal of digital tools. 

Social media filters

In the manner of magazines airbrushing famous faces, girls can now enhance their looks with a quick tap of their phone. Some so-called "surgery filters" mimic cosmetic procedures, with many remaining constant in videos. 

  • Snapchat:  In addition to stock filters, users can enter detailed AI prompts to get customized adjustments. Using a test teen account, I was able to prompt Snapchat’s AI to make my selfie look like I’d had lip filler and Botox. 
  • TikTok: Bold Glamour, arguably TikTok’s most notorious cosmetic filter, creates hyper-realistic alterations that give users larger eyes, plump lips, chiseled features, and a full face of makeup. 
  • Instagram: Ironically, given the moniker, Instagram has the fewest “looks-enhancing” filters, particularly for teen accounts. This is due in part to recent legal action.

Facetune

Facetune is an app that features an astonishing array of filters and video- and photo-editing tools, all with a decidedly cosmetic bent. It’s popular for altering content prior to posting on social media. In a telling clue to how perniciously these filters target women and girls, FaceTune’s landing page features almost exclusively female-presenting models. 

AI

Generative AI has put Instagram Face on a rocket ship. In addition to chatbots like Grok or Gemini, which include image-generating capabilities, AI is heavily embedded in filters and editing tools on social media and Facetune.  

Plastic surgery 

Plastic surgeons report a surge in patients requesting surgery to look like digitally altered images, with Instagram and TikTok largely to blame. Although plastic surgery for minors remains rare, filters and AI images have helped normalize cosmetic procedures for teens. 

How Instagram Face hurts girls

Mental health issues 

The barrage of altered images can negatively impact how girls see themselves, reinforcing that their worth is tied to their appearance. These unattainable standards can lead to mental health issues, such as: 

  • Lowered self-esteem 
  • Anxiety 
  • Self-harm
  • Eating and body image disorders 

White-centered beauty ideals 

Although Instagram Face blends idealized features from different races, the final product reads as predominantly Caucasian, in what Tolentino calls a “distinctly white but ambiguously ethnic face.” This perpetuates Eurocentric beauty standards and is likely to disproportionately impact BIPOC girls. 

Snapchat dysmorphia 

In what has been called “Snapchat dysmorphia," girls can become preoccupied with resembling their digitally altered images. 

Isolation

Kim Anderson, PhD, regional clinical director of the East Region at Eating Recovery Center, told Parents magazine that she’s seen teen girls in her care who isolated themselves, refusing to go out because their image couldn’t be perfected through filters and editing. 

What parents can do 

Counterprogram 

  • Place extra emphasis on your daughter’s positive qualities that have nothing to do with her looks.
  • Comment less on your own and others’ appearance. When you do, make a point to speak positively of people who don’t fit conventional beauty standards. 
  • Encourage your daughter to follow a wide variety of creators promoting diverse appearances and natural beauty. 

Teach her to think critically about beauty standards

Talk often about how unrealistic beauty standards are perpetuated online, and encourage your daughter to think critically about how those standards impact her and the culture. 

Social media breaks 

Take occasional social media breaks as a family. Go one step further by encouraging her to regularly take photos and videos without any filters. (That means you, too!) 

Monitor her online activity

Your daughter can’t fight this battle alone. Stay tuned into what she’s up against. 

  • Look at her feed together. I can’t emphasize enough how different your daughter’s social media feed likely looks from yours. Periodically review it together and discuss what you see. 
  • Use a monitoring app. With BrightCanary, you’ll know if your daughter searches for terms related to problematic beauty standards, if she’s talking to friends about her appearance, or if she’s trying to achieve unrealistic beauty ideals. You’ll also get real-time alerts for red flags like engaging with self-harm or disordered eating content.   

Final word

Instagram Face is a heavily altered, homogenized look that’s flooded social media. It  perpetuates unrealistic beauty standards through filters, editing apps, and AI. The impact can take a real toll on girls, from lower self-esteem to isolation. 

You can push back by emphasizing your daughter’s positive qualities unrelated to her appearance, helping her think critically about what she sees online, and taking filter-free breaks together. 


BrightCanary helps you spot if your daughter is engaging with problematic beauty content. Download it today to get started. 

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