How to ask your child for their passwords

There are 5 billion strangers on the other end of your child’s device.

And just like you wouldn’t allow a lock on their bedroom door if those 5 billion strangers were inside, having access to your child’s device and online accounts is important for their safety. After all, even the best parenting strategies fall apart without supervision.

How to ask for your child’s passwords

🔹 Be transparent: Show them how BrightCanary works. Our AI-powered summaries provide layers of privacy. You don’t have to read every message, but you’ll be alerted to concerning content like bullying, self-harm, or adult images.

🔹 Be a team: You’re on their side. You have two jobs: to love them and to keep them safe. Having passwords for emergency access to their accounts ensures you can step in when they need you most.

🔹 Set clear expectations: Most of our parents make BrightCanary a condition for device use. If you’re paying for the phone, it’s reasonable to expect access for your child’s safety.

🔹 Check in: After a week, sit down with your child again. Ask about their online experiences and listen. Keeping open communication builds trust.

You’re not alone. Parents everywhere are making this choice to protect their kids online.

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